Friends. We all have a few — or many — depending on where we look and how we define them.
Are they people we know in real life? Or those we’ve only met online? For me, it’s both. I’ve come to find comfort in the friendships I’ve made across time and space. It doesn’t matter how long I’ve known them, how often we talk, or whether we’ve ever even stood in the same room. A friend, to me, is someone who shows up — in joy, in chaos, and in the quiet middle.
A friend is someone who claps when you thrive and checks in when you’re drifting. Someone who sees your flaws but chooses not to walk away. Someone who lets you be ridiculous, weird, impulsive — without judgment. The kind of person who’ll call you out when you mess up — not from a place of superiority, but out of love. Not because they’re perfect, but because that’s what friends do.
And sometimes, even if they’re thousands of miles away, the bond doesn’t change. You reconnect after a long time apart and it’s like nothing ever shifted. You pick things up mid-sentence, mid-laugh, mid-memory.
When I was a kid, I didn’t have many friends. Life moved on, and with it, so did most of those early bonds. But oddly enough, social media rekindled some of those lost connections. A DM here, a birthday message there — and somehow, the thread wasn’t completely broken. I cherish that.
The digital world also brought new people into my life — people who’ve shaped it for the better. Some helped me build ideas, stories, communities. Others simply held space for me, and I for them. These online friends have become part of my creative orbit. They’ve made the world feel smaller, kinder, more collaborative.
Moving around as a teen, and later changing countries, gave me the opportunity — and the challenge — of finding new friends. But in doing so, I also found clarity: who still wanted to stay in my life? Who made the effort? Who showed up — even if we didn’t spend much time together in person?
It’s not about proximity. Not anymore.
Distance, nowadays, is irrelevant. People are just a message, a voice note, a video call away. Whether it’s Skype, a WhatsApp ping, or an Instagram story reaction — the connection is there if we choose to nurture it.
So yeah, wherever you are…
You might be far from home, maybe even feeling a bit isolated — but you’re not truly alone.
You’ve got people.
You’ve got friends.
And whatever happens, just remember: I’m still here.
I’m still your friend.
